I am a lifetime member of the Coachville School of Coaching. I've taken a bunch of classes with them. Thomas Leonard was the founder of Coachville, and he oversaw it until his death. He was prolific, free (from almost everything that plagues most humans), loved to be online, and had a keen ability to translate his ideas for his audience... an audience which turned out to number in the hundreds of thousands by the time he moved on.
He loved creating lists, and this one here is one of my favorites. I keep it on my fridge, and over the last 3 or 4 years and through many of my own changes, it has never failed to remind, inspire, and enlighten me.\
Thomas' own version of The Laws of Attraction :
Become incredibly selfish: without you, there is nothing.
Unhook yourself from the future: attraction works in the present.
Overrespond to every event: instead of overracting. Evolve.
Build a superreserve in every area: have more than enough.
Add value just for the joy of it: it's attractive when you enjoy it.
Affect others profoundly: the more you touch others, the better.
Market your talents shamelessly: don't be embarrassed.
Become irresistably attractive to yourself.
Get a fulfilling life, not just an impressive lifestyle.
Deliver twice what you promise: consistently deliver more than expected.
Create a vacuum which pulls you forward: being pulled forward is more attractive than being pushed.
Eliminate delay: time is expensive and thus unattractive.
Get your personal needs met, once and for all.
Thrive on the details: subtleties, details and nuances are more attractive.
Tolerate nothing: tolerating costs you. Costs are expensive.
Show others how to please you: don't make them guess.
Endorse your worst weaknesses: honor the worst part of yourself. It makes you more accepting of others.
Sensitize yourself: the more you feel, the more you'll respond.
Perfect your environment: the attraction system requires first class environments.
Develop more character than you need: integrity is not enough.
See how perfect the present reality really is: especially when it is not.
Become unconditionally constructive: high levels of respect are very attractive.
Orient exclusively around your values: do what fulfills you.
Simplify everything: abandon non-essentials.
Master your craft: being the best at what you do is the easiest way to become successful.
Recognize and tell the truth: the most attractive thing of all, and requires skill and awareness.
Have a vision: when you can see what's coming, you don't need to create a future.
Be more human: when you are genuine, you are attractive.
--- Copyright Thomas Leonard and Coachville
